Before you even realize it someone you thought you were close with will suddenly disappear. And just because you were once close to someone doesn’t always mean things will magically be the same after a couple years. I’m not saying to never open up to anyone or allow anyone into your life, but rather keep guard. Shit happens and things are going to change, it’s just matter if we’re ready to handle it as it comes or not.
Fuck those “I can get any girl I want” type of guys. You can’t even keep one, what makes you think girls are going to be all over you? You know what’s attractive? When guys know how to keep it real with their girl, and not 5 others.